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A letter to the parents at our son's kindy

I wrote this letter in our son's second week of kindergarten to make the introduction of his hearing loss and hearing aids easy for him and for us. We now do not have to explain to 40 sets of parents and he to 40 children what his FM hearing aids and loss is all about. He can get on with just being one of the gang and so can we. So far it has worked wonderfully and I know I feel very relaxed and at ease at his school, and I think the other parents do with us too. - Leonie

Dear Kindy parents,

This is our son ............ He is in ..........class.

...........is a very friendly and affectionate boy. A natural leader, talkative, intensely inquisitive, very stubborn at times, and very talented at drawing and making Lego. He loves to make up games and sometimes can be a little bossy. Oh! By the way, he also wears hearing aids. They are red, (his favourite colour) with Winnie the Pooh stickers on them. He wears them, as he has only 70% of his hearing, a permanent loss, due to his 9 week prematurity. The hearing aids do not give him perfect hearing like glasses will do with a "sight loss" so he still struggles to hear in a noisy environment like school. Therefore, he has what is called a FM, a small receiver attached to a bone coloured hearing aid, which picks up the voice of his teacher, when she wears the compatible lapel mike and battery pack. Her voice is then unobstructed by any background noise and transmits directly into his aid.

............., is of course in every other way a normal boy, and likes to be treated like everyone else. His hearing aids are very much a part of him and he is very protective of them. He doesn’t like anyone poking them or touching them, in much the same way the sight challenged, don’t like to have their glasses played with or touched. He will explain what they are for if asked politely, if he is in the mood. He forgets he is wearing them, and most children do too once they get to know him.

We decided to write to all of you so that if your children do notice them and talk about them with you. You can answer most of their questions, therefore taking the pressure off our son having to tell 40 children the same thing over and over. And to help us, and ......... to settle in (you have no idea how many times WE have to explain them too!)

We are not sensitive about them or ashamed, and ............ certainly has no idea that he is any different to anyone else. Daddy wears glasses and he wears Hearing Aids. And that’s the way we are sure he will be treated here at........................... (school).

We hope you remember all the talents we talked about first up that describe our son and get to know him - not as "the child with hearing aids" but as ............................, "you know the friendly, outgoing, boy with the blond hair, that loves space ships and rockets!" Because that’s who he is to us, his family and his friends.

Thank you for your time.

(Your Name)

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